Hey everyone! Today, I’m getting personal and sharing something a little cheeky—my five favorite ways to masturbate! I think it’s important to talk openly about pleasure, self-love, and our favorite sex toys, and this is my way of normalizing the conversation around masturbation. We all deserve to feel good, so let’s get into it!
1. Vibrator Magic
One of my absolute favorite ways to masturbate is with a vibrator. There’s nothing quite like it, and it always delivers the kind of intense pleasure I crave. The constant vibration can be amazing for both quick and extended play sessions, depending on my mood. My first vibrator was a complete game changer—it felt like I had unlocked a whole new level of pleasure I didn’t even know was possible. The best thing about using a vibrator is that it makes it so easy to get those mind-blowing orgasms, especially on days when I need a little extra help or want something more reliable and powerful than my fingers. I love to use my vibrator on my clit, starting with a low setting and slowly building up the intensity until I can’t take it anymore. Sometimes, I tease myself by keeping the vibrations light for as long as I can, building that delicious tension before finally giving in. The intense, pulsating pleasure is perfect for those times when I want to have an explosive orgasm without much effort, or when I’m in the mood to really lose myself in the moment. I even love using my vibrator while lying back, closing my eyes, and really focusing on the sensation, letting every vibration course through my body. I might change the angle, move it around a bit, and explore different spots to see what feels the best in that moment. The great thing about a vibrator is that it makes solo play feel so luxurious—it’s like I’m giving myself the ultimate treat, indulging fully in the sensations and letting go of everything else. The way the vibrations build and intensify always leaves me breathless, and it’s one of the most satisfying, consistent ways for me to experience true pleasure.
2. Edging For Pleasure
Edging is another way I love to get myself off, and it’s such a great way to really make a masturbation session last. It’s all about bringing myself right to the edge of orgasm, then backing off before starting again. The build-up of anticipation is incredible, and by the time I finally let myself come, the orgasm is so much more intense. It feels like my entire body is tingling and alive. I love how powerful it makes me feel—like I’m totally in control of my pleasure and taking my time to fully enjoy it. It’s a fun way to turn a quick masturbation session into a full-on experience, where I get to savor every moment and truly indulge in the sensations. This is one of my favorite things to do on a lazy weekend when my boyfriend is out of town, giving me the perfect opportunity to take my time and really enjoy myself.
3. Shower Head Bliss
The shower is an underrated place for self-love. When I want something a bit different, I love to use the shower head. The warm water combined with the pressure feels amazing, and there’s something about being in the shower that feels so freeing. I let the water hit just the right spot—usually my clit—and close my eyes, letting the sensations wash over me. It’s especially great because it adds an element of relaxation—the steam, the warmth, the feeling of water cascading down my body. It’s like a full sensory experience, and it almost feels like I’m pampering myself while also getting off. The shower head is one of my favorite “sex toys” in a pinch, and it never fails to leave me feeling completely satisfied and refreshed.
4. The Classic
Let’s not forget the classic—using your hands. There’s something really intimate about touching yourself with your own hands, exploring all the places that make you feel good. I love the control it gives me, from soft teasing touches to more intense pressure. Plus, there’s no set-up needed! Just me, my fingers, and some time to unwind. Sometimes, I like to mix it up by adding a little lube for a different sensation. It makes everything feel smooth and adds a little extra spark to the experience. When I’m using my hands, I really like to take my time—teasing myself, exploring different rhythms, and building up that tension until I can’t resist any longer.
5. Pillow Grinding
Okay, this one is a throwback to my younger days, but it’s still a favorite. There’s something really comforting about straddling a pillow and grinding against it. It gives me a different kind of pressure and lets me control the movement. Plus, it’s perfect for those times when I want something that feels more like riding, rather than just focusing on the clit. The pressure against my body feels so good, and the rhythmic movement always takes me back to those first explorations of my own pleasure. I know it might seem a bit unconventional, but trust me, it can feel incredible. It’s all about getting in tune with my body, creating that friction, and letting myself enjoy the ride—literally. Grinding against a pillow is one of those timeless methods that will always have a special place in my heart.
Final Thoughts
These are my five favorite ways to masturbate, using everything from my own hands to vibrators and shower heads, but there are so many ways to explore your body and find what works for you. Masturbation is about connecting with yourself, finding what brings you joy, and taking the time to indulge in that pleasure. I hope sharing my favorites encourages you to try something new or rediscover an old favorite. Remember, there’s no wrong way to masturbate—what matters is that you’re enjoying yourself.
I’d love to hear about your favorite ways to masturbate, whether it’s with a vibrator, a different kind of sex toy, or something completely unique. If you feel comfortable, share your experiences in the comments below. Let’s keep this conversation positive and fun—we all deserve to feel pleasure and embrace our desires.
—Kendra
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